A Tribute to abra a collection of her comments

[Eureka]

"Men are irrelevant. Women are happy or unhappy, fulfilled or unfulfilled, and it has nothing to do with men." — Fay Weldon

abra
January 22, 2018, 3:35 pm
I disagree with the quote. It may be true for some women but not all. I can't imagine that I would be very happy without someone to share my life with. In my case that would be a man. My husband and son and his family are relevant to my happiness.

[Eureka]

"You will find that if you really try to be a father, your child will meet you halfway." — Robert Brault

iltquilt
September 14, 2012, 12:21 am
I never had to "try" to be a mother; do men truly have to "try" to be fathers? Come on. This guy is so corny.

jnoodles
May 23, 2013, 10:16 am
Yes. Clearly they absolutely do. Quite apqrt from this man's alleged corniness. Fathers live with the sure knowledge that their children may become the stepchildren of another man any day and do not have the sort of bioslogic bond that women do. Conscious effort is required. My Dad didn't do it. Many don't. It is a simple truth. There are women out there like this as well. Just fewer.

abra
September 11, 2017, 2:42 pm
My husband is an excellent father now, and when our son was growing up. I'm sure the specter of a step-father never crossed his mind, nor did he have any doubt about paternity. I really hope that he is in the majority. It's so sad otherwise.

[LLapp]

"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." — Marcel Proust

silveryaspen
June 30, 2009, 2:29 pm
lovely thought .... and such people are lovely to be around

montyb
September 17, 2013, 11:47 am
How fortunate to be married to one such person.

wvwoman
March 29, 2014, 8:58 pm
oh, monty, that's so sweet!

Quizzical
June 9, 2014, 1:36 pm
Happy for you, Monty. I am too.

abra
May 12, 2015, 9:56 am
Lovely quote.

abra
March 22, 2016, 7:38 am
We just had our St. Patrick's Day corned beef dinner, with our son's family. I truly am grateful to them for making me happy. My grandsons are wonderful kids.

[Eureka]

"A woman asks little of love: only that she be able to feel like a heroine." — Mignon McLaughlin

BrainCellKeeper
January 17, 2015, 3:34 pm
I don't need to feel like a heroine; this is a load of bull.

abra
May 21, 2015, 2:11 pm
Okay, we'll start a list. All women who don't need to feel like a heroine, feel free to sign :0) I've never given it any thought, but I don't mind it.

LLapp
January 4, 2018, 3:12 pm
I like feeling like a heroine, like I made all the difference for him -- and the truth is he and I both know I did. And he likes quietly feeling like a hero, like he changed my life forever for the good -- and the truth is he and I both know he did. And then we lived happily ever after, and the night and the morning were the next day, when came the coffee brewing and we began again.

montyb
January 10, 2020, 9:51 am
I tried to make my wife feel like a heroine, but she refused to wear the Wonder Woman costume.

abra
April 29, 2020, 1:59 am
I know that I'm my husband's hero. Because he's told me so many times. So BrainCellKeeper, do you want to reconsider. Being a heroine is fun, but there's no right answer.

[Eureka]

"More than Santa Claus, your sister knows when you've been bad and good." — Linda Sunshine

abra
July 18, 2018, 6:42 pm
I guess I used to rat out my sisters to my mom, but I would never have ratted them out to Santa.

contessawin22
February 9, 2021, 7:06 am
Well, abra, you had your priorities right!!!

[Eureka]

"On the one hand, we'll never experience childbirth. On the other hand, we can open all our own jars." — Bruce Willis


abra
February 2, 2018, 6:16 pm
Looks like its a win-win for the guys team.

[LLapp]

"If we did not flatter ourselves, the flattery from others would not harm us." — Proverb

marnita
July 1, 2017, 2:02 pm
If I did not flatter myself, no one would.

abra
December 8, 2018, 5:55 pm
Do you know, even though we disagree about so much, and my commas make you shiver, I think flattering things about you all the time?

[LLapp]

"To remind a man of the good turns you have done him is very much like a reproach." — Demosthenes

Eureka
December 17, 2020, 7:27 pm
Remember that time I drove you to the airport, Demosthenes, during rush hour In a blizzard?

Fudi
October 24, 2021, 12:13 pm
Demosthenes: I do, Eureka. There was that one hairpin turn that you took kind of fast. That was a good turn. Exciting. Made me feel alive. Thanks!

abra
November 18, 2021, 2:09 am
Oh, sure, Demo, you remember Eureka driving you to the airport, but who was it who loaded up the truck and helped you to move across Athens? You didn't even spring for McGyros.

[LLapp]

"All love is probationary, a fact which frightens women and exhilarates men." — Mignon McLaughlin

maradnu
December 23, 2016, 3:09 pm
Probationary would be conditional upon good behavior, and subject to withdrawal upon bad behavior.

abra
April 24, 2021, 10:58 pm
I never loved my husband probationally and I never felt like I was on probation. I guess after all these years we're both slightly exhilarated.

Eureka
March 4, 2022, 2:14 am
Your comments about your marriage always delight me, abra.

[Eureka]

"Let us make one point, that we meet each other with a smile, when it is difficult to smile. Smile at each other, make time for each other in your family." — Mother Teresa

marnita
September 3, 2018, 8:32 am
There are some smiles that can light up an entire room. There are others that just make you want to slap it off that face.

abra
September 27, 2018, 4:56 pm
^ Political smiles do that, and it doesn't matter which side they're on.

Wordigo
June 30, 2020, 2:27 pm
^Which political side, or which side of the face, they are on?

abra
August 25, 2020, 10:06 pm
In the case that was a serious question. I mean a smile from a politician, regardless of party. One of things I hate about the masks is when I catch someone's eye as they pass I always smile. Now they can't tell if I'm smiling or just staring at them.

mistyswiss
September 17, 2020, 8:33 pm
abra, it called a "smize." (link) Based on some of the comments you leave on this site, I'm guessing folks know you are smiling even with a mask on!

[LLapp]

"Life is eating us up. We shall be fables presently. Keep cool - it will be all one a hundred years hence." — Ralph Waldo Emerson

abra
July 30, 2014, 4:22 pm
Emerson said "keep cool"? Whoda thunk it?

universalmom
January 3, 2016, 11:08 am
Who knew he was a Beat poet after all?

kb83
January 24, 2018, 3:10 am
This was Emerson, but he was not expressing his own thought, but describing that of a skeptic. It occurs in the work "Representative Men: Seven Lectures", and it is in the fourth entitled: "Montaigne: or the Skeptic" (link)

abra
January 29, 2018, 1:22 pm
Montaigne? Our Michel de Montaigne? He said ''be cool''? Even weirder.

SippyGurl
November 30, 2018, 3:48 am
got a rocket in your pocket...

LLapp
December 23, 2021, 9:28 pm
SippyGurl nailed it. The correct quote was "Keep cool -- from your first cigarette to your last dying day."

abra
November 30, 2022, 1:46 am
My son uses the Jet Song to explain being a Cub fan. We're back to having to explain.

[Fudi]

"Materialism is a circumference without a center. Idealism is a center without a circumference."
— Augustus William Hare


montyb
May 21, 2012, 3:43 pm
Dang geometry.
LLapp
November 29, 2014, 9:31 pm
Sounds like a stoned insight.
SwampySox
September 29, 2016, 7:50 am
Waaay deeeep....
maradnu
January 9, 2017, 2:00 pm
All this circumferating is making me dizzy.
jimdgar
February 16, 2017, 11:21 am
I though doughnuts were a circumference without a center. Maybe that's my problem.
CCCookie
May 19, 2018, 5:23 am
Ii wonder what he was smoking when he produced this quote. It's totally illogical to me -- a circumference, by definition, is around something and that something HAS a center. And thinking that idealism extends to infinity in all directions is pretty foolish. It can easily go too far, at least in the opinions of others, but it does have limits. Most people, but definitely not all, will lose their pacifism if all that they hold near and dear is threatened, for instance. There are other examples, of course.
DrCryptell
July 22, 2018, 9:51 am
...and a triangle is a square looking for a shortcut; an ellipse is a circle that ate too many hot dogs.
blueladyblue
April 30, 2019, 4:30 pm
...and a circle is a square that lost its edge. A square is a nerdy circle. An octagon is a stop sign that hasn't been painted yet. And are materialism and idealsm really opposites?
Synonymous
July 14, 2020, 7:56 pm
...Like a circle in a spiral and a wheel within a wheel...
badbob
August 4, 2020, 7:59 am
maybe a circular firing squad was in order
LLapp
October 7, 2020, 1:48 am
Blueladyblue's comment reminded me of my favorite Craigslist ad. Somebody was selling an old octagonal end table/cabinet, and the only text in the ad was "Great for storing stop signs."
abra
July 19, 2022, 2:56 am
^ I had one of those I handed it down to my son who handed it down to a friend. Now I have no place for my stop signs. Actually, that table was where I stored my treasure trove of newspaper cryptograms.

[LLapp]

"Humor's a weapon if you want to make it one." — Bob Newhart

abra
September 22, 2021, 6:33 pm
I remember when my son discovered Bob Newhart from an album we had. The other day he called and said that our older grandson was listening to the one about the airline and screen door company. I said ''the torch has been passed to a new generation''. Proud Nana.

[LLapp]

^^^^ That one is just wonderful. Thanks, Toeprint.

[Toeprint]

"Baseball is an allegorical play about America, a poetic, complex, and subtle play of courage, fear, good luck, mistakes, patience about fate, and sober self-esteem."
— Saul Steinberg


puffybob
December 7, 2011, 4:48 pm
Give me a break.
fredsevent
February 22, 2012, 11:00 pm
Okay - puffybob. Take five!
Lurker
August 1, 2012, 10:35 pm
No, it's about hand-eye coordination.
bazinga
November 20, 2012, 2:09 pm
It is about spitting and making gestures with your hands.
Allen
July 2, 2013, 3:36 pm
Baseball is 20 minutes of action, packed into 4 hours!
skeeter
March 5, 2015, 9:31 am
All that and peanuts and hot dogs, too.
abra
March 28, 2016, 2:19 pm
It's about never giving up hope. It's about starting each season woefully naive and thinking there's a chance. It's about watching them throw away their chances in the playoffs and saying "wait'll next year:" Well that's what it's like if you're a Cub fan.
Barnabas
October 17, 2016, 8:47 am
Maybe not this year, abra. Cubs and Dodgers series tied 1-1 in the NLCS. Lifelong Twins fan here, but in 2016... Go Cubs!
abra
October 22, 2016, 7:25 am
I must have had the winter is too long blues up there. OMgosh, yes!! Go my Cubbies Go. And let me say that 86 years are nothing. LOL Try 108. And 71 without a Pennant. Tonight we try to get past Kershaw. I think we can do that, but if we can't we've got another shot on Sunday. There's alway THIS year.
mmfs83
March 9, 2017, 5:58 am
And they did it abra!!!
abra
April 25, 2018, 6:12 pm
While we were living!