A Tribute to abra a collection of her comments

[Eureka]

"Conscience in most men, is but the anticipation of the opinions of others. " — Jeremy Taylor

abra
November 19, 2015, 10:28 am
I thought I had done this, so I got up to check on the grandkids, visited a while and came back to see "there is an error..." I'm very slow.

wvwoman
November 25, 2015, 5:31 pm
oh, abra--been there, done that!

LLapp
December 26, 2016, 8:48 am
Having no grandchildren has been great for my crypto-speed.

abra
August 9, 2022, 3:01 am
Aww, in 2015, I went to check on my boys. They're too big now, they don't come to spend the night anymore. sniff

[LLapp]

"A well-tied tie is the first serious step in life." — Oscar Wilde

chopstix
April 11, 2013, 7:35 pm
Mr. Wilde seemed to prefer ascots.

abra
February 20, 2015, 2:24 pm
Mr. Wilde was very cool. (link) I loved this.

skeeter
November 6, 2015, 10:31 am
I'm thinking it's a well-tied shoelace you need for that first step so you won't trip.

LLapp
May 5, 2016, 7:33 pm
abra, the video disappeared. I wonder what it was...

abra
May 6, 2016, 2:11 pm
It was about some Target employees, teaching a young man, applying for his first job, how to tie a tie. I don't know why the video disappeared , but while I looked for it, I saw that he got the job.

SippyGurl
January 13, 2017, 12:04 pm
lol, nice abra!

abra
September 4, 2018, 6:53 pm
After my husband retired from the Air Force. He had a job at a state prison. He was expected to wear a tie everyday. Over the years we bought tons of beautiful ties. The inmates called him the tie man. Then the powers that be decided ties weren't necessarry anymore. I tell him we should sell some of the more expensive ones on e-bay.

NotTooOld
November 17, 2018, 8:06 am
I think I get this quote more than any other.

DaddyOmar
December 7, 2020, 7:43 pm
My son ties my ties. I am in trouble

Synonymous
September 19, 2021, 12:54 am
Our 8th grade teacher required all the boys to wear ties. My father taught me how to tie them. Hated that teacher but learned a lot about life from him; we were the only boys in school required to wear ties. You can imagine how popular that made us! NOT.

abra
January 7, 2022, 10:13 pm
NotTooOld, do you get this one more often than the Bob Hope ''a bank is a place'' quote?

JetsMafia14
May 5, 2023, 4:31 pm
Ha, skeeter.

[LLapp]

"An expert is a man who tells you a simple thing in a confused way in such a fashion as to make you think the confusion is your own fault." — William Castle

elsiegirl
March 3, 2015, 8:55 am
Had to put my grandson back to sleep, ugh, 902 seconds!!

abra
October 23, 2015, 1:18 pm
This is how my mind works. This quote did not look the least bit familiar. BUT, I certainly remember elsiegirl, putting her grandson back to sleep.

[Eureka]

"When mom and dad don't understand, a sister always will." — Unattributed

abra
February 2, 2020, 2:37 am
One of my sisters is upset with me right now. She's wrong, I'm right. If I explained you would agree. Honestly. We were texting. I explained this to her and she ''whatevered'' me. That REALLY p.o.ed me. I'm waiting to see how long it is before I hear from her again.

abra
May 11, 2022, 1:13 am
I've changed tactics with the sister that I mentioned. I decided we're to old for this. Now I will go without an apology, when I deserve one. I will give one when I don't feel I'm wrong. It's time for peace. The instance I wrote about before, is what made me change my mind.

[LLapp]

^^^ I really love that one.

[Synonymous]

THAT is truly beautiful. I didn't always agree with abra but I respected her quite a lot. She had a very good mind and a wonderful spirit. Thanks Eureka for sharing this.

[Eureka]

After I read abra's first comment, I was relieved to see that she'd reconciled with her sister, and in the most selfless way. If her sister ever sees this, I hope she understands what abra did.

[Eureka]

"Be careful about lending a friend money. It may damage her memory. " — Unattributed

abra
August 3, 2017, 11:00 am
No friend has asked for any large sum of money. We have given money to family though. We're glad that we're at a point in our lives when we can help. My son and daughter-in-law are very generous. They often give money to friends who are having a problems. They don't mention it and the only way I know is because sometimes someone will thank them on FB. One time that he did tell me about it, was because someone had returned the money, even though it had been a gift. He was trying to figure out whether to pay tithes on it again.

[LLapp]

Encouragement from abra to all the writers here.

"I can't break the association of electric trash with the computer screen. Words on the screen give the sense of being just another passing electronic wriggle."
— John Updike

LLapp
March 26, 2015, 8:27 am
Composing poetic prose on screen is just not the same as with a pen and paper.

skeeter
April 23, 2015, 7:57 am
I was the first person in my state to purchase a Macintosh, and the PC users in my building scoffed and said it was a "glorified Etch-o-Sketch" that would never last.

maradnu
January 6, 2017, 1:10 pm
I write on the computer.

mmfs83
May 29, 2017, 6:43 am
Writing on the computer is something I resisted until I realized the advantages. Now, it's the only way I can write effectively.

MamaB
September 18, 2017, 5:27 am
When I'm writing for school, if I get a block, I sit down with paper and pen. By the third sentence I'm back to my computer. It is a bit faster! I expect composing poetry wouldn't need to be that fact most of the time!

phthelen
September 28, 2017, 5:42 pm
Writing and editing online is such breeze.

318WOZ
March 6, 2021, 8:34 pm
I absolutely prefer writing on a computer because I'm able to edit immediately and leave no trace of the previous versions, which means I'm not distracted by them. If I was writing on paper, I would want to rewrite the whole page after small changes, and it would slow me down a lot. I don't know; maybe I would adjust if I had to. But I like computers.

abra
October 15, 2021, 2:37 am
There are so many writers here. Is there a forum where you tell about your writing? I'll have to check. If there's not one, you should start one.

[LLapp]

"The task of the educator lies in seeing that the child does not confound good with immobility and evil with activity." — Maria Montessori

LLapp
February 17, 2015, 5:27 am
Oh my -- this single quote could be the topic of an entire symposium on modern childhood education. I am the last to deny that ADHD is real, but it is so misunderstood by those who prefer sedate obedience to unbridled curiosity.

NotTooOld
April 12, 2018, 1:44 am
Sometimes I wish for a class full of boys who have been diagnosed with ADHD, so I can enjoy them and teach them appropriately for their personalities. Then I come to my senses.

mohamm1
August 2, 2019, 5:56 pm
<3 this! Good comments on this very true statement. Children are curious by nature and will readily learn almost anything if they like the teacher and feel safe and respected in the classroom. And if they are not put into the defensive by peers.

abra
August 16, 2022, 2:34 am
My darling older grandson, so bright, so hyperactive. He's such a kind sweet person. I pray constantly that he will fit in. His younger brother is a charmer and always has a crowd of friends. We were so thrilled this summer that he's had a few outings with friends.