Originally posted by lalatan
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As for something that might be worth reflection:
The human mind is like a duck quacking in a snowstorm. It's seeking the warmth of reality.
"Reality by any means" could be the mind's motto. Whatever mental hoops you have to fly through to make the world real.
The "ability" manifested by someone has a degree of reality to that person and to those around them. Doing something has to be real,
or it wouldn't be done.
Benchpressing 400 lbs has its reality. Or 800. Or 1,000.
The further ability moves from the norm, the less real it becomes.
Our realities are based on what is possible. How things should be, how they behave, how they interact. Like a chair suddenly lifting off the living room floor wouldn't be real. And if it happened, the mind would seek an explanation.
Or would deny that it had happened at all.
The ability of some people is comparable to a chair lifting off. It's inexplicable. Completely unreal. So, there has to be an explanation.
Or denial.
Explanations are the nails that hold our house of realty together.
Denial is the shingle keeping out the weather.
Rarified ability is unreal to the average mind.
People hate unreality.
It just pisses us off or scares us or unsettles us. We're at a loss. WTF? Our minds are spinning , trying to understand.
I sometimes wonder if ignorance isn't a weird type of mental homeostasis trying to maintain an individual's stable reality.
The information and explanations may be readily available to make a situation or condition "real" but the conflict between actual data and belief can just cause all sorts of cognitive dissonance.
Begs the question why a person doesn't take advantage of the informational resources available. And not only the information, but all of the information about how to sort through information to determine the likely degrees of reliabilty for that data.
Cognitive dissonance unsettles reality.
Highly intelligent people handle cognitive dissonance by learning and bringing order to the conflicting information. Ignorant people quash the conflicting information and regain "reality" by eliminating anything that conflicts with the beliefs that bring stabilty to that reality.
Thus, mental homeostasis.
Appreciating higher level of accomplishments sometimes can only be done by those at that level. For the rest of us, it's just unreal. We can't begin to understand how this experience of that person is different from our own.
Our own experience is the benchmark for reality.
When someone's ability far exceeds our own, we're left trying to explain why the chair suddenly is floating above the TV.
quack, quack
ps: all that crazy talk was an oblique explanation as to why some may find what you do unreal, thus something not understood, thus not perceived--or even resented or disliked. Our minds are prone to not perceiving what we don't understand. It's too unreal. And reality is premised on perception. So, if the feedback is lacking...
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