The kinders were studying earthworms this week. You just don't think of worms having mouths. But they do.
Worms are very beneficial to the environment. I just picked up a couple of 30 lb bags of worm castings for the garden. Those tiny mouths produce stuff that makes all my plants grow better.
Which made me wonder why we disparage other people by calling them "worms." Worms may have thin skins, but they dont'carry grudges. Thin-skinned humans harbor all manner of grudges and ill will. It eats at them. They become obsessed with how they've been wronged. (And not a bit of that crap is good for anyone's garden.)
Worms don't spend a second on such things. They're not absorbed in getting revenge just because some bird almost plucked them from the ground. They have better things to do.
Like producing worm castings for my garden.
One of the drawbacks of having a more developed mind like humans is there are more things to go whacko. A thin-skinned worm probably has never projected its feelings on a single other creature. Even other worms. But, thin skinned humans do it all the time.
Turns out that being thin-skinned coincides with low social IQ. Having high social intelligence involves being willing to perceive others in an unbiased way. People who are moving along a scale of self-absorbtion that's easily offended don't have the luxury of that extra awareness.
Perhaps because so much attention is occupied with fighting off imagined wrongs. To them it's all about self. And they don't get that others really aren't out to get them.
It's pretty rare to find that others are "out to get you" except, ironically, from thin-skinned individuals who have imagined you've wronged them.
Which are also part of a mental package prone to self deception and dishonesty.
Poor worms to have to suffer such associations.
So, in the interest of fairness to worms, and in the interest of being kind to others...
Worms are very beneficial to the environment. I just picked up a couple of 30 lb bags of worm castings for the garden. Those tiny mouths produce stuff that makes all my plants grow better.
Which made me wonder why we disparage other people by calling them "worms." Worms may have thin skins, but they dont'carry grudges. Thin-skinned humans harbor all manner of grudges and ill will. It eats at them. They become obsessed with how they've been wronged. (And not a bit of that crap is good for anyone's garden.)
Worms don't spend a second on such things. They're not absorbed in getting revenge just because some bird almost plucked them from the ground. They have better things to do.
Like producing worm castings for my garden.
One of the drawbacks of having a more developed mind like humans is there are more things to go whacko. A thin-skinned worm probably has never projected its feelings on a single other creature. Even other worms. But, thin skinned humans do it all the time.
Turns out that being thin-skinned coincides with low social IQ. Having high social intelligence involves being willing to perceive others in an unbiased way. People who are moving along a scale of self-absorbtion that's easily offended don't have the luxury of that extra awareness.
Perhaps because so much attention is occupied with fighting off imagined wrongs. To them it's all about self. And they don't get that others really aren't out to get them.
It's pretty rare to find that others are "out to get you" except, ironically, from thin-skinned individuals who have imagined you've wronged them.
Which are also part of a mental package prone to self deception and dishonesty.
Poor worms to have to suffer such associations.
So, in the interest of fairness to worms, and in the interest of being kind to others...
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